I made this video today in order to thank Wayne Holt for a very thoughtful gift that he gave me. Wayne ROCKS!

I wish that YouTube wouldn’t have cut me off at 1:30, but alas. After that, Ava went down for a nap. As much as I love Wayne, I wasn’t about to film a video with a cranky LilZebra. :-)

My point remains the same though- social media was, is, and always will be about the relationships. What you do once those relationships are established is up to you. Wayne did something extremely thoughtful that I will always remember.

What will you do?

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You may remember that, a few weeks ago, I started an email newsletter called Inside the Zoo. Things are going quite well, which makes me very happy. I’ve sent out 4 editions of Inside the Zoo, and the response has been great. There are now more than 50 folks who have joined me Inside the Zoo.

In the first big development for the Zoomates, I’m adding a new feature for anyone who subscribes– the Inside the Zoo Archives. This way, folks who subscribe can go back and look at past editions and get caught up. It also means that folks have a place to go if they want to reference something I mentioned or shared in one of the emails. I asked the Zoomates what they thought about the idea, and the response was overwhelmingly positive, so I’m glad I could make it happen.

Obviously, if you want access to the Inside the Zoo Archives, you’re gonna have to subscribe. If that sounds good to you, just go here.

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If you want to start a debate among baseball purists, bring up the designated hitter.

If you want to start a debate among Realtors, bring up professionalism.

Frankly, I’m sick to death of both discussions.

I really think that, as an industry, we need to move past the whole “we need a higher degree of professionalism in real estate.” It’s a pointless argument that will never be resolved. The only thing that it does is allow us to pat ourselves on the collective back. The discussion certainly doesn’t do anything to improve professionalism. The reality is that the ones even participating in the discussion don’t need to improve their professionalism, anyway.

Don’t even get me started on “increasing the barrier to entry.” That’s another pointless argument. Basically, it is elitism. It screams of– “I didn’t have a high barrier to entry, but I feel really cheated by all the educational/professional training I did undergo that I feel is being wasted in real estate, so we should really make people go through a bunch of training so that I can feel better about myself.”

I know what I’m talking about, because this is exactly how I used to feel.

Then I got over myself and moved on to more important things.

Professionalism doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think

Clients don’t care about your professionalism. Well at least, not in the way that you think they do. Sure, they want you to be honest, truthful, respectful, dependable, etc. They want you to be all of those things. They also assume that you are going to be all of those things. They are going to assume, and then demand, a certain level of competence. Your responsibility is simply to meet and (hopefully) exceed their expectations.

The professionalism of your colleagues has very little bearing on whether or not you are professional and meeting your clients’ expectations. Sure, you might have clients that were burned by a bad apple or two, but hey, welcome to the real world.

I’ve got news for you, not everyone takes their profession as seriously as you do. So what? Screw ‘em. You worrying and complaining about them isn’t suddenly going to transform them into conscientious professionals.

You can talk about increasing the perceived level of professionalism all you want, you can raise the barriers to entry as high as you want, but there is always going to be someone at the bottom of the ladder. If you’re not careful, you might find out that it’s you someday.

We don’t need increased professionalism among Realtors. There are tons of extremely competent, extremely professional, Realtors out there who treat their profession as a career, not just a job. They hold their clients interests above everything else, every time. I know this. I meet them all the time.

Let’s concentrate on things that really matter

Stop worrying about professionalism. It’s a distraction from what really matters.

If you really want to increase professionalism in the industry, it starts with you.

If you do what you do to the best of your abilities, and do it better than your competition, all the “unprofessional” Realtors out there won’t be able to compete with you, and natural selection will take care of the rest.

The few unprofessional Realtors out there really don’t matter to you. Unless they somehow become a majority of the profession, which I don’t see happening, they are simply irrelevant. They obviously don’t care, which means you have no obligation to care about them.

I can’t speak for you, but I’d much rather spend my time talking with and about the vast majority– the really awesome Realtors that I meet all the time who totally rock the real estate industry. It’s time to start talking about them.

We don’t need more professionalism among Realtors. What we need to do is spend more time with the real professionals.

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inside the zoo email newsletter from the Real Estate Zebra

Zebras, right this way. . .

Considering my last post was on January 1st, I figure that writing the next post on February 1st provides the perfect amount symmetry.  ;-)

One of the reasons that I haven’t written a blog post in a month is that I began my newest adventure. . .fatherhood.  I’m loving every minute of it.

One of the other reasons that I haven’t posted much in a while is that I’ve been thinking about my blogging and other social media efforts a bit differently lately.  One of the things that I feel is missing from blogging is a degree of intimacy.  It’s missing the kind of thing that I love about doing presentations in front of audiences, or leading sessions at RE Barcamp.

In those settings, I get to know people a little bit, and they get to know me a little bit, too.  I like that.  It is something that I wish I could get from blogging, but it really isn’t.  Blogging is largely anonymous.  It is a bit like shouting into a forest.  Sometimes, people shout back, but sometimes they don’t.  Most of the time, I have no idea who I’m shouting to.

Enter the email newsletter. . .

I’ve wanted to do an email newsletter for a while now.  I’ve wanted to do it as a way of capturing some of that intimacy that comes from knowing who I’m conversing with, and speaking directly with them.  An email newsletter will allow me to do that.

I’ll know exactly who I’m talking to (and I’ll know that they want to hear from me).

The folks who choose to hear from me will know that they have my undivided, personal attention.

Where the blog is a general session, my email newsletter is more of a breakout-style event.

Why the zoo?

Well, my life can feel like a zoo from time-to-time.  I’ve got a lot of stuff going on between real estate, basketball officiating, helping real estate pros with technology, marketing, and media, and of course– being a dad.

The good news is that all of this craziness teaches me a lot of valuable lessons.  I want to be able to share those lessons with you.

All this craziness also raises a lot of questions.  Where does all this come together?  When it does come together, what can we learn from it?  Where does it all lead?  I want to explore all these questions with you, too.

So, if you want to learn a bit more about me, and hear from me in a more regular, more intimate setting, then just use the sign-up form below, and step inside the zoo.

The best part is, this is the type of zoo where feeding the animals is always encouraged!

I WANNA STEP INSIDE THE ZOO!


One last thing. . .

Most of us know someone who says that they don’t read blogs, or don’t have time to read blogs, or don’t like blogs. You also know that those folks could benefit greatly from being exposed to the information they could find on blogs. Well, I would love it if you would invite folks like them Inside the Zoo. I think they’ll find it much to their liking, and I would be eternally grateful to you, too.

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A new chapter for the Zebra

by Daniel Rothamel on January 1, 2010 · Comments

in Inman, News

There is something to be said for starting out the New Year fresh.

Yesterday was my last day as Community Manger for Inman News. My journey as Community Manger began over a year ago. It was a wonderful ride.

I learned a ton about all kinds of things. The kinds of things that will continue to serve me well. I had the opportunity to work with some really great people as part of a truly special team. I value tremendously the friendships I have started as a result of being the Community Manager there.

And in case you are just itching to send a scoop to TMZ or the Drudge Report, you can forget it. There won’t be any litany of mistresses revealed, or health problems uncovered and then covered up again. ;-)

As for the future, it is incredibly bright. I’ve got some things planned, which I’ll be talking a lot more about over the next few weeks. I honestly can’t remember being as excited for an upcoming year as I am when I think about what 2010 has in store.

2010 is gonna rock.

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Your Readers Want Cupcakes

by Daniel Rothamel on December 1, 2009 · Comments

in Blogging

Portable, easy to digest, morsels of tasty goodness is what they want.  Give it to them.

Portable, easy to digest, morsels of tasty goodness is what they want. Give it to them.


(Photo taken from the @LilZebra Baby Shower set)

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I just received my new business cards over the weekend, and I’m wicked excited to show them off!

I hope y’all really like them. I also hope that you’ll keep taking awesome pictures so that I can keep making awesome business cards. :-)

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Fan me up, Scotty!

Fan me up, Scotty!

When I got on Facebook over two years ago, I immediately thought it would be valuable to me.

It was, kinda. Then, it started to fall off my radar. Over the past year, however, Facebook has made a major comeback in my life.

I use Facebook to keep up with my family, my friends, my clients, you name it. I use it to read magazines, blogs, join discussions, learn things. Facebook is really valuable to me, now.

When Facebook first launched the ability to create pages, I did it right away. Honestly, it wasn’t all that valuable. Things have changed a lot since then. Now, I find myself spending a lot of time browsing the pages of which I am a fan. Lots of good stuff.

That lead me to thinking about my own Facebook page. I still use it, but I want to make it more valuable for my fans. I am realistic, I know that not everyone is going to stop by here every day to see what is going on. I know that even folks who have subscribed via RSS aren’t going to read it every day. I know I don’t, so it would be unreasonable of me to expect others to do differently.

I do know that I’m on Facebook, and a lot of the people who read this blog are on Facebook, and I would like to reach them while they are there, so they don’t have to go all over the place, if they don’t want to. I know I have the ability to reach them, I just want to make sure that they want to stick around, once they get there.

So, if you are a fan of The Real Estate Zebra on Facebook, I would love your feedback.

What do you expect?
What do you want to see?
What do you want to do?
How can I help?

If you’re not a fan of my facebook page yet, I would still appreciate your feedback, in hopes that I might be able to gain your attention in the future. If you want to become a fan right now, I would really appreciate that, too.

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Today is Jeff Turner’s birthday.

I met Jeff in person for the first time almost 2 years ago. I blogged about it, at the time. I still remember getting that random phone call, Jeff telling me that he followed me on Twitter, and meeting him for a drink in the lounge at the Treasure Island hotel in Vegas just before NAR 2007. We talked for about 30 minutes or so. It was a great conversation. We talked about real estate, technology, and basketball. Later that night, Kari and I ate dinner with him and some others after the first NAR BloggerCon.

Good times. Good times.

I liked Jeff right away. I could never have known, though, that after those first few tweets back and forth, and that initial conversation in a hotel lounge, we would become great friends. I could never have known that Kari and I would come to care so much for Jeff, Rocky, and his family. I could never have known that almost two years after meeting him, Kari and I would be wishing him a happy birthday like this:

I could never have known any of those things would happen, but they did. For that, I am eternally grateful.

And to think, it all started with a few little tweets. . .

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