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		<title>By: Offers That Offend &#124; Denver Real Estate Blog</title>
		<link>http://www.realestatezebra.com/sorry-if-i-offend/comment-page-1#comment-226658</link>
		<dc:creator>Offers That Offend &#124; Denver Real Estate Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 04:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Real Estate Zebra wrote a blog about &#8220;Sorry if I Offend&#8221; likening the job of Realtor to that of a Sports [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Jay Thompson</title>
		<link>http://www.realestatezebra.com/sorry-if-i-offend/comment-page-1#comment-110</link>
		<dc:creator>Jay Thompson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Nov 2006 18:59:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent analogy. The similarities are striking.

My 15 year old son ref&#039;s soccer. Some recreational, some competitive.  Adult coaches and parents get in his face sometimes. It makes me want to beat them, but he handles it very well. I love it when he &quot;red cards&quot; an irate coach and they have to sulk off the field, tossed out by a 15 year old for being a jerk. Most of the time they find him after the game and apologize...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent analogy. The similarities are striking.</p>
<p>My 15 year old son ref&#8217;s soccer. Some recreational, some competitive.  Adult coaches and parents get in his face sometimes. It makes me want to beat them, but he handles it very well. I love it when he &#8220;red cards&#8221; an irate coach and they have to sulk off the field, tossed out by a 15 year old for being a jerk. Most of the time they find him after the game and apologize&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica Beganski</title>
		<link>http://www.realestatezebra.com/sorry-if-i-offend/comment-page-1#comment-109</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Beganski</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Nov 2006 13:34:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;d like to address your comments on helping buyer clients determine whether an offer is going to offend a seller.

As a buyer&#039;s agent, I face this question often.  I also respond that I don&#039;t know for sure what the seller is thinking - I can guess but that&#039;s always a stretch. I go on to say that I can only help the buyer determine his/her motivation and willingness to purchase the house and what price is appropriate for that client.

I can&#039;t remember where I found this methodology of pricing an offer but I often use it.  Maybe it will help you with some of your clients:

Steal/Deal/Real are the three stages of an offer or three price points to consider when putting together an offer.

Steal - is the amount you would love to pay and represents a price that is significantly under market value.  You know, the price you would brag about to all your friends and relatives. 

Deal - an amount you would pay for a house that still represents a savings, although not grossly under market value.

Real - This is real market value - not the list price.  This is the highest price a buyer would be willing to pay.

Before I discuss an initial offer amount with clients, I tell them to think of these three prices up front.  What price would represent a &quot;steal&quot;, then the price that would be a &quot;deal&quot; and then the amount that would be &quot;real.&quot;  I have them write it down on a piece of paper and save it.

In this way, I have prepared my clients for the negotiation process in advance.  Not all clients choose to go this route and go directly to a &quot;real&quot; offer or start with the &quot;deal&quot; offer first.  Others only want to pay the &quot;steal&quot; price and if it&#039;s not accepted, we move on.

It is up to the buyer to evaluate his/her comfort with the risk of losing out on a home to another buyer by offering lower than &quot;real&quot;.  Although less commonplace in my area (Connecticut) than before, I am still running into multiple offer situations on well-priced houses.  

Conversely, there is the risk of overpaying.  Again, it&#039;s up to the buyer to determine which and how much risk he/she is willing to take.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d like to address your comments on helping buyer clients determine whether an offer is going to offend a seller.</p>
<p>As a buyer&#8217;s agent, I face this question often.  I also respond that I don&#8217;t know for sure what the seller is thinking &#8211; I can guess but that&#8217;s always a stretch. I go on to say that I can only help the buyer determine his/her motivation and willingness to purchase the house and what price is appropriate for that client.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t remember where I found this methodology of pricing an offer but I often use it.  Maybe it will help you with some of your clients:</p>
<p>Steal/Deal/Real are the three stages of an offer or three price points to consider when putting together an offer.</p>
<p>Steal &#8211; is the amount you would love to pay and represents a price that is significantly under market value.  You know, the price you would brag about to all your friends and relatives. </p>
<p>Deal &#8211; an amount you would pay for a house that still represents a savings, although not grossly under market value.</p>
<p>Real &#8211; This is real market value &#8211; not the list price.  This is the highest price a buyer would be willing to pay.</p>
<p>Before I discuss an initial offer amount with clients, I tell them to think of these three prices up front.  What price would represent a &#8220;steal&#8221;, then the price that would be a &#8220;deal&#8221; and then the amount that would be &#8220;real.&#8221;  I have them write it down on a piece of paper and save it.</p>
<p>In this way, I have prepared my clients for the negotiation process in advance.  Not all clients choose to go this route and go directly to a &#8220;real&#8221; offer or start with the &#8220;deal&#8221; offer first.  Others only want to pay the &#8220;steal&#8221; price and if it&#8217;s not accepted, we move on.</p>
<p>It is up to the buyer to evaluate his/her comfort with the risk of losing out on a home to another buyer by offering lower than &#8220;real&#8221;.  Although less commonplace in my area (Connecticut) than before, I am still running into multiple offer situations on well-priced houses.  </p>
<p>Conversely, there is the risk of overpaying.  Again, it&#8217;s up to the buyer to determine which and how much risk he/she is willing to take.</p>
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		<title>By: Doug Lindstrom</title>
		<link>http://www.realestatezebra.com/sorry-if-i-offend/comment-page-1#comment-108</link>
		<dc:creator>Doug Lindstrom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Nov 2006 05:31:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the analogy of agents being sporting officials.  As a broker, I feel that even though I have a favorite team (my client), I am still obligated to be fair and get to a consensus.  If a referee is only calling fouls on one team, the crowd will start questioning the credibility of the ref.  
This is a great post and truly gave me a better understanding of my role as a broker.  Sometimes being too much of an advocate for a client will not accomplish the goals of my client.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the analogy of agents being sporting officials.  As a broker, I feel that even though I have a favorite team (my client), I am still obligated to be fair and get to a consensus.  If a referee is only calling fouls on one team, the crowd will start questioning the credibility of the ref.<br />
This is a great post and truly gave me a better understanding of my role as a broker.  Sometimes being too much of an advocate for a client will not accomplish the goals of my client.</p>
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		<title>By: Kristal Kraft</title>
		<link>http://www.realestatezebra.com/sorry-if-i-offend/comment-page-1#comment-107</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristal Kraft</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Nov 2006 00:36:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post.  Realtors are very much problem solvers.  We work together to make sure everything works, despite our differences.

What I find very frustrating is how sometimes we get blamed for things beyond our control. ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post.  Realtors are very much problem solvers.  We work together to make sure everything works, despite our differences.</p>
<p>What I find very frustrating is how sometimes we get blamed for things beyond our control. &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
		<link>http://www.realestatezebra.com/sorry-if-i-offend/comment-page-1#comment-106</link>
		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Nov 2006 22:44:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi- 
Interesting analogy on sports and real estate, haven&#039;t heard that one before. I read articles all day long on the buying/selling process in today&#039;s market and you brought up some valid points on offending the seller. More and more transactions are getting canceled this way, because of buyers &quot;low-balling&quot; the seller.  Good info.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi-<br />
Interesting analogy on sports and real estate, haven&#8217;t heard that one before. I read articles all day long on the buying/selling process in today&#8217;s market and you brought up some valid points on offending the seller. More and more transactions are getting canceled this way, because of buyers &#8220;low-balling&#8221; the seller.  Good info.</p>
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		<title>By: Jonathan Dalton</title>
		<link>http://www.realestatezebra.com/sorry-if-i-offend/comment-page-1#comment-105</link>
		<dc:creator>Jonathan Dalton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Nov 2006 21:42:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Communication is the key in either case. I&#039;ve been a sportswriter for almost 20 years and the one constant from coaches at any level is the desire for communication. If a referee makes a mistake, fine. (Well not really, but still.) Say you didn&#039;t see it, say you missed it, come up with a plausible reason but say something. Failing to communicate causes the largest problems.

I had the shoe on the other foot recently when I was asked to run the lines at a youth soccer game. Yikes. I kept looking around, hoping there was a Jumbotron to help. No such luck.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Communication is the key in either case. I&#8217;ve been a sportswriter for almost 20 years and the one constant from coaches at any level is the desire for communication. If a referee makes a mistake, fine. (Well not really, but still.) Say you didn&#8217;t see it, say you missed it, come up with a plausible reason but say something. Failing to communicate causes the largest problems.</p>
<p>I had the shoe on the other foot recently when I was asked to run the lines at a youth soccer game. Yikes. I kept looking around, hoping there was a Jumbotron to help. No such luck.</p>
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